Anyone know if we can calculate the wedding dates for 2013 without the Tong Shu?
The Auspicious wedding dates for 2013 is not out yet at this moment. Wedding Couples who wish to calculate their auspicious wedding dates in 2013 have to visit a master to calculate.
The expected time the dates will be available will be around March to April 2012 when the Tong Shu 2013 version is being printed.
Anyone know if we can calculate the wedding dates for 2013 without the Tong Shu?
"bazhi"? I did not understand this word?
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For this you can choose your time frame, settle only weekend and on. Quite useful. This is for brides who go for tong shu and forgo FSM.
HI nancypaul01,
Bazhi is basically you day, month, year and time of birth.
So with your partner and your bazhi, the master will be able to provide you with an auspicious date.
can you expalin it briefly.. so that i can understand what you are saying...
Let me try to explain, (but sorry, I can't explain it briefly)
"Ba" in Chinese means "Eight" (八), Zi in Chinese means "Word" or "Character" (字), it does not necessarily mean the person's "Character", but somewhat more of his/her "Characteristic". And directly translated, it means "Eight Characters"
According to ancient Chinese, "Ba Zi" is a person’s “Life Blueprint”. It represents a person’s Hour, Day, Month and Year of birth. ie. What time, which year, the person is born.
And it is also the person's "Pillar of Destiny", or "Four Pillars". Each of this four pillar is made up of two rows of "readings". The first row shows four columns (Hour, Day, Month and Year) of the person's Heavenly stem elements and the second row shows the person's Earthly branches elements, thus it forms the Eight Characters.
From the person's BaZi, we can determine a person's career, wealth, health, relationships, characteristics, past, present, future, and anything under the sun, star, moon..
However, a person's future is not really "fixed", thus even by telling your "future" with BaZi, you still have control of your life, and there are things that you can do that can "change your future".
There is a saying, one's life is determined in this order, first is Fate, second is Luck, third is Feng Shui, Forth is attributed by your Good Deeds, and lastly, fifth is your Education.
Therefore, even if one is "fated" to have "bad luck", he/she can still change his/her destiny with Feng Shui remedies, or perform good deeds and increasing his/her knowledge.
Hope this helps. Please pardon me once again, this is not exactly the "brief" explanation that you want.
How about this year wedding dates? which date is good? any suggestions?